![]() Such couples if achieve pregnancy but no fetal heartbeat is visible, can assume the condition as a miscarriage. This simple message makes me believe in myself.Miscarriage is one of the most stressful situations for a couple who are trying hard for conceiving. Phew! I won the race and touched the finishing point. ![]() Hi Purnima, I am blessed with a baby girl. The days were becoming shorter and so was our wait. I became possessive for this particular good news. We will continue with our present doctor." ![]() I talked, talked and talked and then finally she said, "thank you Purnima for your advice. One evening I called auntyji and told her firmly that I want to talk to Varsha otherwise I won't be able to help them.ĭon't know what happened, maybe that day my tea was a bit strong and so was my voice but I received a call from Varsha. I tried hard to convince her against changing doctor. It is understandable that they were upset with the doctor because of the complete heartbeat mismanagement but still doctor too have limited option at this phase. It wasn’t a good thing to change doctor at this crucial juncture. Then came another speed breaker in this journey with auntyji's message that they want to change the doctor. It was my victory which I had snatched from the deserving doctor and her team. I felt as if I had received a Bharat Ratana with all shutter bugs capturing my pride. Auntyji was happy and full of aashirwad for me as the baby was kicking and happy. What if that small dot of doubt becomes reality?īut somehow I was able to put her on ease with my countless sympathetic sentences, small anxiety management tasks and regular follow-ups. I tried to console her but my own words sounded hollow to me. It was getting on my nerves but as a counsellor, this was my real test. Then began a series of forwarding message game- I would message auntyji and she would forward the message to Varsha and then Varsha would answer her mom and then auntyji would forward her message to me. I had to reach out to Varsha, chaihe jaisey bhi ho! This unique kind of third party assistance was complicated. But, I couldn’t just let her be like this. It was natural for her to not trust anyone at this stage and precious pregnancy.įor me this was a big challenge as I had to actually counsel Varsha but through her mother. Varsha was in such pain and anxiety that she wasn’t ready to speak. The problem was that Sangeeta ji wasn’t letting me communicate with her daughter directly however much I convinced. She couldn’t afford to let it go, this time. Varsha, the daughter of Sangeeta ji was 6 weeks pregnant finally through her 3rd IVF cycle but with no heartbeat scare, Varsha was at the edge. She had been through a long struggle with infertility over the past years. The lady introduced herself as Sangeeta Narang (name changed) mother of Varsha Bhatia(name changed) whose Beta HCG levels were on rise with every passing week but ultrasound was unable to trace the heartbeat. When you receive a call around 9am on Sundays, it is natural to get annoyed.īut unknown number, somewhat jittery caller and non-official timings of the call were enough for me to sense that the situation was tense. She came across Fertility Dost her gut feeling urged her to give a call to us immediately. She wanted to know what to do, a ray of hope. ![]() She had conceived after much struggle and ‘no heart beat’ of the baby was completely tearing her up.
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